![]() Fear needs to become your friend, so that you are no longer uncomfortable with it.” “Your fear is the sharpest definition of your self. Tell her that you will spend 30 minutes (or some specific time) with her in absolute attention and total presence, but then you must return to carry on your mission.” “Tell your woman that you love her, but you cannot deny your heart’s purpose. Just this self-knowledge often relieves much pressure a man feels to prioritize his relationship when, in fact, it is not his highest priority.” “Admit to yourself that if you had to choose one or the other, the perfect intimate relationship or achieving your highest purpose in life, you would choose to succeed at your purpose. He should learn to stay in the wound of pain and act with spontaneous skill and love even from that place.” “If necessary, a man should live with a hurting heart rather than a closed one. Every moment waited is a moment wasted, and each wasted moment degrades your clarity of purpose.” Feel what you want to give most as a gift, to your woman and to the world, and do what you can to give it today. “Men who have lived significant lives are men who never waited: not for money, security, ease, or women. The love that you magnify may realign her behavior, but your effort to fix her and your frustration never will.” Learn to find humor in the unending emotional drama the feminine seems to enjoy so much. “You can’t escape the tussle with the feminine. “The feminine always seems chaotic and complicated from the perspective of the masculine.” Don’t believe in the myth of “one day when everything will be different.” Do what you love to do, what you are waiting to do, what you’ve been born to do, now.” As of now, spend a minimum of one hour a day doing whatever you are waiting to do until your finances are more secure, or until the children have grown and left home, or until you have finished your obligations and you feel free to do what you really want to do. “It’s never going to be over, so stop waiting for the good stuff. As long as life continues, the creative challenge is to tussle, play, and make love with the present moment while giving your unique gift.” They think, “If I can work enough, then one day I could rest.” Or, “One day my woman will understand something and then she will stop complaining.” Or, “I’m only doing this now so that one day I can do what I really want with my life.” The masculine error is to think that eventually things will be different in some fundamental way. “Most men make the error of thinking that one day it will be done. “These concepts are for people who recognize men and women’s euqliaty, while alwso recognizing their varying masculine and feminie energies and how those energies play out in relationships and sex.” ![]() ![]() “You must recognize and accept which pole you gravitate towards.” “Ongoing sexual passin requires “polarity”, a masculine pole, and a feminine pole, it doesn’t matter who takes on those roles, but the dynamic and the exchange of energy is necessary for true passion.” “If you want real passion, you need a ravisher and a ravishee otherwise, you just have two buddies who decide to rub genitals in bed.”
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